Right Thing

I always want people to say and do the right thing for that moment.

When my parents say the wrong thing I get frustrated, annoyed that all my life I've had this semi misinformation. When I think about the person I want to end up with, I want them to know and do just the right thing.
But I can't do that myself, I expect this amazingness from everyone when I can't even call it up in myself. I want to marry someone who does everything right but wants nothing in return.

Can I say simply that we're complementary? Him always making up for some awkwardness on my part by being all super?

Am I a hypocrite?